Dressing Up in Leather

My recent visitor loves leather. Since he called to say he would be a little late, I got dressed up in chaps (which was a very generous gift from a massage client long time ago when I still did outcalls and massage only), and a leather jacket. He was happy when I opened the door to greet him, and thanked me for the effort.

As we progressed though the session, I took off my jacket and put him in it. At that moment a shift in dynamic occured: confidence, sexyness, excitement. Roleplaying as bikers sharing a secret, feeling bad boy and naughty. We delayed orgasm until it just had to come out... NOW!

Delaying somebody their orgasm generates feelings that can ultimately increase final pleasure. Begging and pleading for release transfers control to your partner, and enjoyment heightens when control is returned to you at the point of orgasm. 

Auto-asphyxiation can be gently integrated into the art of capturing the orgasmic moment and stretching the length of time we feel the buzz. But I will save that part for a later post.

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Ronielle