Becoming an Escort

I am frequently asked this question by guys:

I want to be an escort, but do I have to have a big dick and look like a pornstar?

My answer:

Escorting is actually a very challenging job, since you need to figure out what each person wants, then give it to them. I don't mean sexually (although that is a big part of it) but what kind of scene they want.

But you need to know what kind of escort you want to be. I'm in it for the rest of my life, so establishing deep relationships that become mutually fulfilling is very important. Most of my clients are approaching the 5 year mark, and I look forward to seeing them. Let your clients make you happy, just like you make them happy.

Each client want something different. Some want big dicks, some want a muscular body and some don't. But most of all they want to feel good when they see you, and you need to always be aware of that. I have a whole toolbox of tricks to draw on to to make people happy (tools that can be also used on family, friends and lovers). These tools work on me too, so I share them. Making it sincere is the key.

So here are a few questions:

1. what kind of service do you want to give (just sex or long term companionship)
2. are you prepared to invest in yourself (physical fitness, dieting, self-improvement)
3. what kind of clients do you want?
4. do you live in a place where there are enough people to escort?

There is a lot more to escorting than looking good and having sex with clients. Market researching, advertisement strategy, relationship management and neurolinguistic programming are very important, in varying degrees depending on your goals.

This month I have had already 2 guys ask me for help on this subject (it is only January 9). In a year I get around 15 requests.