Welcome to my Escort Blog

After escorting more than a decade full-time as a single means of employement, I have so many things to share about my experiences. It is not everybody who personally knows an escort, and maybe never thought that they are more than just a person who gets paid for 'services'. I love writing, so naturally I write about what I know best: my work. Since I don't have any co-workers to chat with, I will let you all inside my little head.

Enjoy, and do not hesitate to contact me!

Ronielle

Tuesday, July 3, 2007

Visible Minorities in Sexwork

I just received and anonymous email regarding the unpopularity of visible minorities in gay sex-related fields. Here is the message:

Question? Contact! Info...   Hi,you are very charming and candid.A pleasure to see.A
friend of mine in Ottawa tried your services while he visited Montreal and lived
with me.He liked you and recommends you for others.You mention that some clients
refuse you because of your ethnic background.I am not surprised.
I take friends to gay male strip clubs and watch gay male porn films.Rarely ever do I see Asian or
minority dancers in gay male strip clubs in Montreal.Taboo,Adonis,Campus and Stock
do hire a few Latino dancers but I rarely ever see Asian nude dancers,native
Canadians,Pakistanis or Arabs.The same thing with gay male porn.I find sexy guys in
every race in Montreal.Why do you think there is racism against these minorities in
gay sex work--write on this.Strangely,I have seen black bodybuilders or black twinks
in gay porn and as nude dancers,but rarely ever the other races.
The first thing that comes to mind is the stereotyping of penis size and races: blacks are hung, whites are average, Asians are tiny. Then another part of my brain kicks in. As a marketing point of view, I believe that white men are the largest consumers in the gay sex industry (which is certainly the case for my own escorting business), thus perhaps what sells the most are white male muscular bodies. Another theory could be the sheer number of white men willing to put themselves in the public eye compared to the visible minorities.

Living in Montreal, the majority of men are white french Canadians. That may simply be the reason why they fill up the strip bars here, just like in Thailand the dancers are Thai.

I pride myself for being different, and for all the people who refuse me there are those accept me for who I am. I just focus on that part, and everything is good.

1 comment:

  1. Hiya Ronielle, All I can say is that anyone who does not enjoy you is really missing out, you are fabulous and someone to be cherished, simple as that! Predjudice of any kind is just ugly.

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