A True Coming Out Story - Gay Life After Marriage

This was found in my email this morning, I hope you enjoy it. It came from a married man, and this is his story.

[hey (Ron)...if you want to cut and paste the following...feel free to.]

" I thought I would add a story about the positive aspects of escorting. Having been attracted to men late in life and not knowing how to explore this, I decided to do what I would with other aspects of my life...if I wanted to learn music I would hire a professional musician, plumbing from a plumber, carpentry from a carpenter. In ages past courtesans were valued not only to teach the arts of lovemaking, but to provide a relationship outside of a traditional relationship. So...I decided that my first encounter with a man should be a professional one.

Ron greeted me on a cold February day over two years ago. I have reviewed that encounter before...it was friendly and sensual....very erotically charged with me. I engaged in male sex...but more than that we engaged discussion.

Over the following two years that discussion has contimued both inside and outside the bedroom. Ron has been a patient and enthusiastic teacher of the arts of making love to men in a wide variety of ways. I have come to recognise that as a lover I truly am gay....and through that have established a boyfriend and since come out to my family. Rather than create tensions this has resolved tensions in my household...I have learned that I can love people in different ways. My wife and boyfriend have become good friends. Both my boyfriend and my wife know that Ron has been an important part of how I have arrived where I am now, although only my boyfriend knows that Ron is an escort. He lives in California, and is comfortable with me seeing Ron in between our visits. I credit Ron with much of the positive outcomes to a complex situation.

In past times courtesans were very much an accepted part of society..this is described in Ancient Greece and Rome and throughout Europe and even in the Kama Sutra....where it was acknowledged that fulfilling all aspects of one's emotional and sexual wellbeing with one relationship was often unrealistic. We should learn from our past."