Preparing for my 30th Birthday

Although I don't turn 30 until Feb 15 next year, preparations have already started. I don't mean a party (I rarely celebrate it with a party!), I mean how my career is going to be affected. I have already lost clients because of my age (clients looking for teenagers), but at the same time I am holding on to many clients who value experience, familiarity and comfort over simple youth.

I started escorting after working as an erotic masseur when I was around 20. As an inexperienced escort I was very nervous, and I am absolutely positive that I did not provide the same level of escortship as I do now. This experience gained over the years is what I will be exploiting in my next advertising campaign, and thus a formal evolution of my career.

The business of escorting is a lot of work, and watching the changes in the Fugues magazine's Escort Section tells me that not everybody is successful. I believe that being honest in advertising (real pic, real description, real price, whole hour sessions etc.) combined with good customer service is essential to success. If the client leaves with the feeling that he got a good deal for his money, then I consider it 'mission accomplished'. I want to add that a good session leaves me feeling good, and a session where someone uses me as a piece of meat makes me feel like a dirty whore. I am human.

I realize that the my own personal pursuits fall in line with escorting. I have always been obsessed with my body image, and after battling a few of my own sexual dysfunctions (such as sex-addiction, erectile dysfunction, and intimacy issues) over the years I have a sensitivity for others with sexual issues. Talking about it with someone that you think could help you is a wise step towards addressing the issue with the intent to overcome it. Sex-addiction was a problem (before I was an escort), now it is an asset.

A new trend that is becoming more common (now more than ever) is the request for coaching in specific sexual areas, such as anal penetration, kissing, oral sex/deep throat. I plan to advertise this point as well.

The biggest step up these past years was realizing that clients can become friends over time. I find myself wanting to spend time with some of them, however I consider it awkward. I find it natural to want to spend time with guys who appreciate me, but the money thing is what keeps us together and it is what separates us. Life is funny that way.