Birthday bash a hit!

It has been about a month since I last wrote. I'm now 30 years old, and excited about my new year. Sculpting is my big thing now, which for me is really an extension of massage therapy and bodybuilding. My age has not affected my work, although now I can state that I have a decade of experience to share.

My party was great; a wine and cheese evening with friends old and new. No clients have attended. I'm not sure how to interpret it. Perhaps I should keep my social gatherings to my non-client friends to keep pressure of my clients who want to please me. Attending a party out of social obligation doesn't inspire me to have a good time.

On an escorting note, my new ad in the Fugues magazine has brought me new clients who are seeking sexual reassurance. Now this means that they wanted me to grade them on their sexual performance. I don't give people grades, but I do honestly tell them (only if they ask specifically for it) what I liked and what I didn't like. This is a really touchy subject. One comment I would like people to be aware of is excessively long pubic hair, which is problematic in oral sex, as well as a completely shaved pubic area, which is rough to the touch and can give stubble burn.

Attempting to go in as much positions as possible can be very uncomfortable, which can ultimately lead to a loss of pleasure. Sensing when your partner is in an uncomfortable position is a skill that takes practice. Making love is about feeling good, and sensing when your partner is feeling good is a reward for a technique well done.

But escorting is more than sexual techniques and positions. For me it is about intimacy and affection, things that people need once in a while to balance out everyday stress. Having a good time with someone you like is something to look forward to after a period of time. The joy of escorting is that a client chooses to be with me to have a good time with. I make your day, and you make mine! How can this be wrong? (you don't need to answer that!)