Kissing Tips

When kissing, it is important to know a few things:

Lips------use these to kiss, do not bite them, and use them to cover your teeth when kissing and sucking. Exercise them regularly to avoid tired lips

Tongue----use to taste and lick, avoid biting and to protect your own teeth from hurting your partner. Exercising this muscle to lengthen and strengthen

Teeth-----avoid rubbing your teeth on lips, genitals and skin unless asked to do so. Pain when not wanted can really dampen the mood and put the victim on self-defense

Breath----not a big issue, as long as at least one partner has a mint candy in his mouth. One mint can freshen two mouths kissing, even without sharing (keep the mint whole, don't crunch on them!)

Beard-----along with teeth, beards (especially one day growth) can be mildly uncomfortable to downright welting of the skin, especially if rubbed hard on the top lip continuously, kissing along the body while dragging your stubbly chin can make anyone jump (imagine a iron wool scouring pad during lovemaking, simply inappropriate!), or rubbed back and forth on the head of the penis (yikes!) Be conscious of the state of hair growth and adjust lovemaking style to avoid discomfort to your lover

Suction---- I think I mentioned in another post, but this is pretty serious. Sucking can cause bruising on the skin, and sucking on a lip or tongue is painful, especially if accompanied with teeth. There is no need to suck, even for oral sex. Oral sex should be like enjoying a Popsicle without biting it. By avoiding teeth, limiting suction and careful positioning can prolong the enjoyment of the popsicle, as well as the one receiving oral sex.

Jaw opening----There is no need to kiss someone on the mouth with your jaw fully opened. Doing so prevents your lips from covering your teeth and can cause teeth scraping around your partner's mouth. So close your mouth and open wide enough to allow a tongue to pass though, your own or your lovers'. Open wide but still cover your teeth when performing oral sex, because any hint of teeth is a distraction to pleasure.

The goal of this post is purely selfish, since better kissers make better clients, and less mouth-related injuries for me at the end of the day. I do not correct clients who are inexperienced because I believe in letting them gain confidence first, then gently, by example, show them how I like to be kissed. This method is the most respectful, since no confrontation is made that can sensitize the relationship. After all, pleasure is the ultimate goal!

Keep on kissing!