Comment on My Last Post: Client writes

Hello everyone, Thanks for your replies! Here is one I selected and would like to share with you (with permission from the author)

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Ron,

I am attracted to 2 categories of escort:

1) A quickie - usually this is a simple matter of lust and the attraction is usually just one or two specific qualities. Generally its a one time affair and it doesn't matter the persona whether it be real or made up. Sometimes I want a test drive which is what watching a stripper is. For me the lust is usually because the guy is twice as hung as me, which is an incredible turn on for me.


2) Regular get togethers - real persona matters with sometimes a bit of role playing. This is attraction but not just sexual. I will call it the "whole package." As you know my attraction for you started by seeing you in a Priape catalogue and then meeting you on the metro at the Outgames. Meeting the dogs, having pie with you all added to the overall package.


Different approaches work for different people. However I believe that using a real persona allows one to work "live" much more often. Its one thing to have a scripted persona in front of a camera where there can be 20 takes of a scene. But "live" there is no chance to do it over again, and the real persona will ALWAYS eventually show through.


The challenge I have with escorts is being able to separate the business from the friendship where both exist or potentially exist. It is always difficult to know if the other person would be as friendly if sex was not involved. I find it takes me 12-18 months to establish the borders, and the border that works well for me is "if we are friends, no sex, but I am happy to discuss business."

Always the best. *End-quote*

Here is what I think about it: Every session starts off as a quickie, but open ended. That means that we will take the relationship one session at a time and let it evolve on its own, if it evolves at all. No stress and pleasant times almost always helps to create happy memories, which is the number one goal I keep in mind when we are together physically.

Just like clients think about their escort(s) periodically, I do the same for clients. I think about them, remember them if they drop me a message somehow, but the more I see someone, the more I think about them. And thoughts of others are what makes relationships happen on their own. If you never think about someone, they probably are not important to you.

Until next time my friends!

Ronielle