Guilty Orgasms

I have seen my share of these, and even had a few of them myself. "Orgasm guilt" is left behind when passion and lust have been satisfied. Guilty feelings have many sources: adultery, self-pity, religious reasons, shame, and probably many others. Perhaps these post-orgasmic lows balance out the great feelings associated with sexual pleasure. But what I am more interested in knowing is this: are these guilty feelings necessary? And if not, how can this pattern of guilty feelings be broken?

I witness the transformation from pleasure to guilt even before the orgasm is finished (in some cases guilt sets in later near the end of the session). Some guys end the session at this point and leave. As I try to understand the situation, why would someone cut off the lingering pleasure of an orgasm? Do they know that ejaculation and orgasm are separate and different events (but usually happens simultaneously)?

But a more pressing question is this: are guilty feelings after sex a problem for the individual? If not, why bother fixing something that is not broken?

For me, I love seeing my guys happy. When they look guilty or ashamed, I can't help but feel like I'm the direct cause. I become the snake at the tree of knowledge, tempting "innocent" people into tasting my forbidden fruit. Part of me is happy to be desired in that way, and that part also wants to be happy seeing my partner happy. Everyone is different, and we all live in our own bubble. If I can't change the way some people feel after love making, then I only hope to cause more pleasure than grief.

On the most part, my guys seem to enjoy themselves, and so do I! My philosophy is simple:live in the moment as if it is the last time you will do it. Happiness is easier to achieve when we are grateful for what we have. So be happy after you come!