Safe Sex A Priority, Condoms for Oral Sex

At my latest STD screening, my doctor has urged me to extend condom protocol to oral sex as well. The hassles of dealing with orally transmitted diseases is not worth it, and although most of my clients are not crazy about the idea of sucking on a protected dick, or getting sucked with a condom on, they appreciate the fact that i am being careful. With the increased popularity of bareback sex on the internet, diseases are spreading, and those of us who want to stay healthy must take precautions.

I realize that this condoms or nothing policy will reduce the number of clients I may have, but at least my chances of getting an infection (and passing it to others) are lower as well. What kind of example would I be if I didn't practice safe sex with all my clients? What kind of client refuses safe sex? Is this an issue of trust?

Trust is important, as long as it is well placed. Trust in safe sex protocol is good; trust in each partner to be clean is bad. Even someone without symptoms (like burning sensations while peeing) can be a carrier. How many people do you know who are hiv positive hide the fact (or lie)? I know quite a few, or to be quite frank, almost all the hiv+ guys i know have lied about it to me in the beginning. Lesson: trust safe sex, not people's words. If you catch something, you only have yourself to blame for knowing better but not acting on it. Pointing fingers doesn't cure infections.

Back on trust, in my opinion those who participate in unsafe sex may believe they are clean, but this is true probably because they are not getting tested frequently enough. Here is an typical scenario for those who get tested regularly:

Time for a blood test...make time to go to clinic

Blood samples taken...waiting for results

Worried if it comes back positive...scared about life changes if it happens

Results received...relief that it is negative (in my case)...confirmed safe sex is worth it

Trust in condoms are reinforced...staying clean takes effort...reward is being healthy

I do not mean to offend anyone who is into bareback sex (strangely enough I love watching it as porn, but not in practice). But as a public sex worker, I intend to minimize the spread of disease and keep myself healthy. My best clients are expected to be the same. An escort who does bare does so when there is nothing left to catch (or they so believe). So be warned!

Love and health to you all!

Ronielle