First Time Clients: Never Paid for It Before Now

The critical point where one decides that paying for a good time is always an interest to me. Never having to pay for sex, I do see myself doing it if the circumstances were right; but what exactly would those circumstances be? By musing over what my clients tell me, the pictures starts to become clear.

I would have to be looking for a long time on who I would want to see. Advertisements online and in local papers is where I would start, as I feel more comfortable with a professional with contact information than meeting someone in person in a bar or on the streets. Researching all I can on him, and fantasize a while before I get the courage to make contact. This will be my first time, after all.

It may take years of patiently waiting, all the while cheacking to see if he is still in business, and if he has updated his photos. That is very important, because without photos who knows what will arrive. And updated photos mean a real pro, who constantly works out and stays in shape for his clientele. Face pictures will be considered first, as that will the face I will be kissing and looking at. If he is advertising for a few years, it would suggest that business is stable for him. It is very strange to see new escorts popping up and disappearing after a month or so, especially if they do not have pictures.

But even with all this research, what do I know of the escort's personality? Does he communicate well? Does he answer the phone in a pleasant manner, or write communications professionally and intelligently, ie complete sentances, capital letters where appropriate and punctuation? This first contact, even if it is not to make an appointment, will leave a lasting impression.

But even that doesn't seem enough to make the big step and do it. A good excuse would be sufficient, like celebrating something like my birthday, a promotion or holiday gift. Or downgrading the whole scene by telling myself that it is like an expensive massage, nothing serious, and wait until stressed to deserve a treat. Maybe unhappiness or unsatisfied with my current mate will drive me to the point. What about just wanting to see the escort and see if it clicks? These are all valid excuses to see my escort of choice.

Of course, like many personal things, I would keep this a secret. Not that I am ashamed of paying for good company, it is the fact that not everything needs to be everybody's business. A private life is exciting for me, and no one should know about it if they are not a part of it. If careful, no one will find out, and that is just the way I like it.

Under these circumstances (this is not a complete list, just off the top of my head), actually visiting my escort will become a strong possibility. And his is just the beginning!

This post was inspired by a recent client, who was seeing an escort for his first time. I listened.

Keep in touch guys, I love reading your comments!

Ronielle