A new year has arrived, this time full of puppies. That's right, my dog had 6 puppies on Dec 13, which started right before a client arrived for a session. I had to reschedule that appointment though, but my guy was here to witness the second puppy being born. What a magical moment.
This holiday season was rather busy, as usual, but with the litter of puppies it was even more so as the clean up duties steadily increased. And this is just the beginning!
In terms of escorting, finding out exactly what someone wants is the challenge. Because everyone is different, at different times, indicators of success are sometimes hard to identify. It all comes down to communication: for example, my visitor told me that he would just like to be naked in bed and hold me while we talked. We did this, and time went by very fast. Somehow I felt like what we did was not enough for him, as if I should have initiated something more sexual. But since the message was quite clear from the start, I honored the request of no sex. But just because someone says one thing doesn't necessarily mean that is what they want.
To illustrate this point, another person gave me a list of all the things he wanted to do in order, and how much time to spend on each action. After following his instructions exactly, he told that that I did fine, but he wanted me to surpass his expectations, not just meet them. A lesson about how difficult some people can be to please by doing exactly what is asked for. So what is an escort to do?
While I do not think that I am the best escort in the world (how can anyone ever earn that title?), I do try my best in providing a service to satisfy my clients, to a certain degree (and safety). But to stress myself out each time I see them, and to feel inadequate after the session is not the reason why I do this work (if so, I would have stayed in the Canadian military as an officer). With so many nice clients who make me feel good about myself, I rather stick to those I can make happy. Being free to chose who I see again is a luxury, as many people I know have job conditions that are less than ideal.
Resolutions for 2011 is to continue to refine my method of escorting to please a wider client base, to provide more pictures and videos online and in my print advertising, and to deepen existing relationships to mutual benefit. I wish all my readers good luck in their resolutions for this year, as well as good health and prosperity. Happy New Years my friends!
Keeping in touch,
Ronielle
Don't stress yourself over such a client. He was playing a power game with you. He gives you an extensive description of what to do, so you spend the whole session getting the details exactly right, then says you didn't do good enough because you should have done something outside of what he asked.
ReplyDeleteIn short, he was there to derive pleasure from controlling you and denying you the satisfaction of a successful session. No doubt he plays the same game with other people in his life, no matter what the situation is.
If you were to decide to politely decline to see him again should he ask, I wouldn't blame you in the least.