Increased Harassment Rate By Text Messaging

With a job like mine, weirdos feel free to contact me without any true intensions of hiring me. Text messaging is becoming the most popular way of initiating contact, being a mix of phone and email communications. Growing numbers of text messaging users unfortunately mean that being harrased by text is growing, too.

A guy texts me about setting up an encounter, but when the conversation begins to feel like sexting (which is the text equivalent to phone sex), I politely ask for a time and date they would like a session, and inform him of my hourly rate. When he claims to not having any money, I write back with, "my services are for serious clients only", and soon after I am flooded with a string of derogatory comments like whore, slut, and other non-creative insults (visualize my eyes rolling back at the display of stupidity). Having this happen once in a while is expected: having it happen almost everyday from different phone numbers is border-line conspiracy! OMG, WTF? Lol

The way I deal with it is to use it as a conversation piece, a subject for psychological analysis, and a topic for a blog post. When life gives you lemons, make lemonade, right?

When I am confronted with such maliciousness, I react with compassion and appreciation. I feel compassion because I pity the fool who displays how lonely, bored and (probably) poor he is to indulge in such juvenile cheap thrills, and appreciation to have a large pool of clients who are high quality people. To react negatively to such onslaught is to admit weakness in my integrity: this person's negativity is his own, not mine.

The contrast becomes clearer in the presence of open hostility: the smell of assholes and roses becomes easier to identify. I don't believe that I invite negative people to contact me, but perhaps life sends them my way to strengthen my sense of humor and to thicken my skin. Being an escort and now a penis enlargement consultant generates flash judgments and assumptions by strangers, but I rather have people think about me than to be completely ignored.

Let me just send this one message right now into the world: karma will get you back one way or another. So make sure that before you fight fire with fire, you step back to avoid the blow before you waste your precious energy on a nobody. It's easier than you think.

Literally loving the world,

Ronielle  

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