Simple is Best

Sometimes a client wants to be completely thrilled with very high expectations and a complete agenda of what to do during a session. While it is natural to plan ahead, the truth is (in my experience), keeping it simple is often the most enjoyable way to go. Here is an example:

A guy come in urging me to do something wild and creative. After putting on leather outfits, strap-on dildos, double fucking, and switching it all around, he still wasn't pleased and time ran out, which disappointed him further. I lose my tip despite having to run around trying my best and it is still not enough. He leaves with an attitude, and calls me again the following week for an appointment. I refuse, because this is not a client I am looking for. I get a feeling that it will get more and more complicated, and I have to work harder each time. Because this is my profession, I will always take the path of least resistance: take on the simple, more enjoyable clients and refuse the complicated, unsatisfied ones. If they were unhappy, why do they bother calling me again? Its mindboggling.

A simple session, in my eyes, consist of making human contact in a loving, caring way (sex too, of course!). While I have done the spanking, whipping and domination during sessions for years, there is a certain energy that feels twisted and unsettling that lasts, and at this point it is something I am unwilling to do when I compare clients. By this I mean I will take simple clients over complicated clients anyday, mostly because we usually have a much better time just having fun than following a script. There are escorts out there who specialize in that kind of thing, but I prefer romance.

An hour goes by pretty fast, so the more time we have enjoying each other's company means more time in a positive, nurturing headspace. The session is less rushed and more relaxing, and ultimately healthier for us both. It may seem boring to some people, but it less intimidating and more accessable to everyone in general.

Domination is a very common request, and something I am less willing to do these days. Probably because I'm diplomatic and respectful in nature, and enjoy pleasure more than pain. Laziness is also a big factor, and being dominant takes a huge effort on my part. Also the fact that I was unwillingly raped by a past boyfriend in my teenage years gives me a perspective that gives me a pause for reflection. Although many rape victims use BDSM (Bondage, Domination, Sado-Masochism) as a healing technique, it doesn't change the fact that it a lot of mental work for both, leaving us spiritually exhausted.

To conclude, and I may have mentioned this in past blog posts, the K.I.S.S. rule: Keep It Simple, Sweety! The more complicated it gets, the less satisfaction you get, and it gets worse over time. Difficult clients are the first to get dropped when business is good; believe me.

Trying to simplify my world as much as possible,

Ronielle  

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