Hornyness, Libido and Men's Health

In a normal, healthy man, with proper hormone levels, sexual desire is like the immune system: something always working in the background of our daily lives because of testosterone. I don't mean that we constantly have spontaneous erections like when we were teenagers, I mean that sexual thoughts, fantasies, and the like float through our heads as an internal indicator that testosterone levels are fine. Of course, this does not mean you have to be obsessed with sex to have normal testosterone. But long periods with no libido, especially when depression, lack of energy, tiredness and weight gain or weight loss, can indicate lowered testosterone levels.

These symptoms are part of andropause, when factors in the body contribute to the reduction of androgens that stimulate androgen receptors. It usually starts during middle-age, and affects men in different ways. This is where andopause men divide: those who wish to restore their testosterone levels back to healthy levels, and those who do not wish any intervention. Some guys prefer to age gracefully and let nature take its course, including the eventual deterioration of their bodily functions. Lack of desire to ameliorate their condition can also indicate that andropause has progressed too far, as feelings of hopelessness and lethargy have sunk in for too long. This can be amplified by loneliness.

As an escort, many clients are in this phase of health decline. Because information is not readily available, and definitely not taught in schools, guys are not educated on their transition from middle-age to seniors. As I speak about this with my clients, they are actually wondering why they are not hearing this information from their doctors. Unfortunately, many doctors are not up-to-date with current research and protocols, as well as being elderly and out-of-shape themselves.

The maintenance of a healthy libido affects directly the livelihood of sex-workers, in both personal and professional areas. A high sex-drive is necessary for escorts, and for clients as well. Losing clients every year because of andropause is something that can be prevented by educating the affected men of alternative treatments available. While this post is more about the awareness of andropause, perhaps the treatments and research should be a topic of a future post.

Thank you for reading, and keep in touch!

Ronielle Out