Part-Time Escorting in 2013

In the early years of my escorting career, many of my caring clients have asked me what I have planned for my future, because 'obviously' I can't do this forever. While mildly insulting, this comment is true for any profession. Who can truly do anything forever? Literal interpretations aside, the future is here, and my new career as a penis enlargement specialist has over-shadowed escorting in a major way.

But the scope of this blog is escorting and sex work, so I will write about what I have recently watched on the Philippines news channel while I was on vacation for the past 3 weeks. It dramatized the life of female 'prosties' (prostitutes) as being forced to sell their bodies because of their mother's inability to make enough money to send them to school, which leads to teenage pregnancies with their comforting boyfriends, then sex-work to make ends meet. I found it quite sad that the mothers were frequently blamed for the girls' situation. The prostitutes proclaimed they had "no choice", but did they not choose to have unprotected sex and get pregnant? The problem is not sex-work in itself, but the lack of assuming responsibility for one's actions. The girls were not forced or raped, but rather seduced with nice clothes, shoes and make-up. It seems like mom is to blame when they end up in jail from getting caught by undercover cops.

Many gay escorts I have met have escorted part-time just to make some quick cash, for school, rent and/or drugs. It seems to me that sex work is a field where there are many motivating factors, depending on gender, country, age, socioeconomics and sexual preferences. For me, it was empowering, challenging and rewarding; control was the key. Self-employement gives me the control I desire, and escorting allowed me to exploit all my resources available to me to take me to the next level.

On another note, I recently have been contacted by a potential client begging to be fucked bareback. I told him that I only use condoms, then he replied that he is HIV positive for 6 years and that his viral load is undetectable. He added that he was a volunteer to prevent the transmission of HIV in the community. Get a load of that! Undetectable viral load or not, there are plenty of other things you can catch. Sometimes I wish that people can just notice what they say and write to me.

On that note, I have been accepting a few new clients at $200/90 minute sessions, but I rarely have time with escorting, just a few hours per month. I guess that answers the question on what I will do after escorting... just being myself.

Thanks for reading!

Ronielle out