I had a client the other day who told me mid-session that he was disappointed with me, because he expected me to be warmer and be exactly like in my reviews. It was his first time with an escort as well. What can I say? If our communication was this open from the beginning, I'm sure things would have turned out different. After all, I'm not a mind reader!
I can't expect to please everyone, since if you look hard enough you can always find ways to improve. By the same token, you can always find something that pleases you, which is how I choose to see my clients. I focus on something I like about the individual, to enable me to connect with that person. Otherwise I would not find my job as an escort enjoyable if I judged everyone who comes through my doors.
Although the session ended with disappointment, while we were sharing thoughts I did give him ideas on how to improve future intimate encounters; tips on grooming and foreplay. Hopefully he left with a few lessons as I did.
Everyone is different on different days, so the best tip I can give is to not have any expectations and enjoy what is there to enjoy.
Hey Ronielle, it's Neil from BC. Well, all I can say is if this guy didn't think YOU were warm enough, he is gonna have a lot of issues in the future. I have rarely met such a sweet and caring guy and right off the get go. I only met you once for a couple of hours and I look forward to doing so again, big time!
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