Multiple Orgasms for Dummies

With the first month out of the way, and getting our routine back to 'normal' after the holidays, it is time to focus on this year's goals. As a personal goal, why not explore a male multiple orgasm? There is a simple technique to doing this, and every time you masturbate is a practice session for you. The key to unlocking a multi-big O is timing and breath control (and practice, obviously!)

A multiple orgasm is like throwing a stone in the water; only very carefully as if you want the stone to skip along the calm surface. Each time the stone hits the water it creates ripples. These ripples can be seen as the 'orgasms', the larger ripples are formed first, and as the stone skips over the water, little 'orgasms' are formed.

Please do not confuse 'orgasm' with 'ejaculation'. They are different events that usually take place simultaneously for men, only that multiple ejaculation may not take place (ejaculation is only for shooting liquid, and the sensation of fluid ejecting). Orgasms make the eyes roll back and toes curl, and the shivering 'shakes' that feel so good. Orgasms also cause a release of prolactin in the brain, which is the culprit for making us tired and useless after a good O.

Back to technique:

Timing: hold your breath right before you have your orgasm, which means no air in or out. Success is acheived when oxygen flow is completely stopped (imagine being underwater). Do not use any devices such as a neck tie or rope around the neck, unless you want your dead body to be found in a very comprimising situation.

Still holding your breath and taking the time to savour the orgasm without air, hold on to your lungs as long as you can, until your vision starts to darken around the edges or you see stars (if you are in the dark). Basically hold your breath for what seems to be a very long time but don't pass out.

Start breathing with a big breath in when you can't hold on anymore, and continue holding on to the orgasmic feeling. Your first breath should feel great, and is the first mini-orgasm after the main one. If you are masturbating, don't stop even if their is a mess to clean up. If you are with a partner, don't stop whatever made you go over the edge. Allow your body to contract itself silly until all the mini orgasms have squeezed themselves out. Unroll your eyes and uncurl your toes: now the multiple oragsms are over.

Don't just read this post, go try it yourself. If you get it right, you may never have plain single O's again.  

Sidebar: remember prolactin is secreted after orgasm? Some people do not produce a lot of this in the brain at orgasm, and are able to restart their sex drive after a short pause. A drug is also available to inhibit prolactin secretion called cabergolin; its primary use is for parkinsons disease treatment (as parkingsons patients secrete too much prolactin). An interesting side effect of cabergolin is a shorter rest phase between orgasms, noticed by parkinsons patients.

Now remember kids, hold your breath before cumming, hold it until you almost bust a lung, breathe again and enjoy what the French call "the little death".

Keep in touch and explore!

Ronielle