Welcome to my Escort Blog

After escorting more than a decade full-time as a single means of employement, I have so many things to share about my experiences. It is not everybody who personally knows an escort, and maybe never thought that they are more than just a person who gets paid for 'services'. I love writing, so naturally I write about what I know best: my work. Since I don't have any co-workers to chat with, I will let you all inside my little head.

Enjoy, and do not hesitate to contact me!

Ronielle

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

Spring Fever Anticipation


Here we are again, on the verge of good weather as winter blows over in its last attempt to freeze our nuts off. With sunny days and cold nights, sexual energy is building up everywhere; so what to do when you are hot and bothered?

First of all, don't hold back your sexual tension until it drives you nuts. I know the type: guys calling me to make an appointment for NOW or NEVER! The sexual tension reaches across the phone, and unfortunately my schedule is made the day before and I rarely have same-day openings. The smart ones realize that regular sex prevents this blue-balled devil from rearing its head, and schedules an appointment ahead of time in anticipation.

According to one of my favorite sex books, 'Zen Sex' describes the ritual of setting a future date of sexual pleasure, and savoring the feeling of anticipation as being 'alive'. Spontaneous sex is awesome too, but can be inconvenient at times, and rejection can create a hurt when logic fails to communicate with the penis. How to heal this pain? Schedule sex, and anticipate it. Enjoy the wait instead of showing penis-induced frustration to your partner (who will most likely consider it a turn-off and immature).

Make a date, prepare yourself for the fun to begin, and enjoy the full effect of lovemaking; planning, preparing, anticipating, savoring and exhaustion. Skipping to orgasm is fine for masturbating before falling asleep, not usually so when with a partner. If you need to look at a clock to pace yourself, do it. The longer the pace, the better the final orgasm (except for those with delayed-orgasm problems, more on that in another post). I try to pace my lovers as much as I can; some like it and some find it deliciously evil and sadistic. Perhaps the feeling of being controlled and surrendering spices up the pleasure factor, who knows for sure for every given moment. One thing IS sure... the ride is much more interesting than a bee-line to the finish line!

Take your time and have fun!

Ronielle over and out

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