Welcome to my Escort Blog

After escorting more than a decade full-time as a single means of employement, I have so many things to share about my experiences. It is not everybody who personally knows an escort, and maybe never thought that they are more than just a person who gets paid for 'services'. I love writing, so naturally I write about what I know best: my work. Since I don't have any co-workers to chat with, I will let you all inside my little head.

Enjoy, and do not hesitate to contact me!

Ronielle

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Safe Sex Negotiations Continue


A client calls and is asking for an erotic massage with someone who is 'openminded'. After talking for a while, 'openminded' for him means unprotected oral sex with in-mouth ejaculation. I explained my policy with condoms and oral sex, which he disliked. He wanted me to make an exception for him because it was his birthday, and that he says that he is clean. Somewhere in the conversation he states that he feels he could trust me because of my strict policy, so I should feel free to make an exception.

When a client wants unprotected sex, there really is a limited number of strategies from a negociation point of view, but none of them hold water.

How can you trust someone who makes exceptions with total strangers?

I guess it is possible if the escort in question is desperate for money to risk his health. The client could also be testing the escort, to see if his resolve for safe sex is solid. No matter how you put it, there is only one good answer: Safe, or no deal.

Birthday or special occasion? And you want to celebrate it by potentially catching a sexually transmitted disease with a high risk partner? (someone with multiple sexual partners are always high risk)

"Don't worry, I'm clean and safe with everyone else". So why do they want to have unprotected sex with me? They respect me less than everyone else? And what makes me believe that they are clean? I know many guys who lie about their health status, even to doctors. At some point these guys start believing their own lies, without any regard to the lives they will affect.

"I wouldn't let anything happen to you". In that case, let's be safe to make sure nothing bad happens.

"The feeling isn't as good. I want to feel closer to you". Once you stop concentrating on the condom, you can have a great sensation. It is an ability anyone can have, you just need the necessary mental skills to concentrate on pleasure, not the lack of pleasure.

"I only have unprotected sex with my wife. So if we are both clean, then it is safe." Wrong. If you can cheat on your significant other, then you are capable on cheating on your escort. Use protection if you really want to protect your loved ones from catching something.

I'm sorry if this is a downer for Bareback enthusiasts. I understand the excitement and fantasy involved, but when the orgasm fades, reality sinks in. If I think that it is a bad idea to have unsafe sex with strangers, then I simply will not do it. I recommend that the client seek someone else who can do it for him.

The client in question made the appointment anyways, and texted me that he was 15 minutes early and if that was ok. I wrote back that I will be ready for the exact time of our appointment as I still had to shower and shave. 5 minutes before the appointment he cancelled, texting he was tired of waiting.

Wow, all that negociating and declaration of trust etc. And he couldn't even arrive at the scheduled time. Sometimes I can't win, but at least I didn't waste my time. It turned out to be a good blog post in the end.

Take care, and remember: fantasy has consequences in reality.

Keep in touch!

Ronielle out

Location : 1475 Rue Saint Hubert, Montreal, QC H2L 3Y9,
Ronielle

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