Welcome to my Escort Blog

After escorting more than a decade full-time as a single means of employement, I have so many things to share about my experiences. It is not everybody who personally knows an escort, and maybe never thought that they are more than just a person who gets paid for 'services'. I love writing, so naturally I write about what I know best: my work. Since I don't have any co-workers to chat with, I will let you all inside my little head.

Enjoy, and do not hesitate to contact me!

Ronielle

Friday, July 29, 2011

Sexual Compatibility in Existing Relationships


This is not the first time that I write about sexual compatibility, but its importance in existing relationships seem to increase over time. There are many types of sexual compatibilities: sexual appetite and sexual acts being the ones I will address in this post.

If you and your partner enjoy having frequent sex (these type of guys will usually masturbate nightly if not actually having sex), then you are compatible in terms of sexual frequency. When one partner declines sex as a habit, then problems manifest physically in several ways: irritability and weight gain. Sex is well known to be an effective stress reliever, as well as good exercise. In many married couples, the sex-controlling spouse often discourages the other from masturbating, or the other way around; encourages the other to masterbate to relieve tension. Either way, when trapped in a relationship, the perks of having a partner (someone to have sex with for "free") are non-existant. A multitude of excuses to not have sex are often heard, but never truly believed. What is the most hurtful is finding out the person you truly love is no longer sexually interested in you. Food replaces physical love and motivation to keep in shape is diminished. Bodyfat accumulation begins and steadily reinforces your loved one to not love you. How many people in relationships are truly miserable? Don't answer out loud, as your trained response is probably not the truth.

Sexual role compatibility for couples is also a touchy issue. Since bottoms and tops are a good fit in theory, some tops ejaculate too fast, to the disappointment of the bottom, or vice versa: the top doesn't come fast enough. Either way, sex requires communication and education in long term relationships. Some want oral, some want anal, some just want frottage; it would be nice to have someone who can handle the sexual aspect of a relationship to reduce sexual pressure in an imcompatible pairing.

Imagine a world where escorting is a viable way of addressing these issues. Unfortunately, sex is used as a bargaining chip ultimately used to control the actions of another, with greater control when the couple are monogamous.

But such power and control are diffused when people have choices. A man does not need permission to have an orgasm. No one should be trapped in a relationship. Fear is the main obstacle for making choices, but once fear is overcome, the weight that is lifted is the greatest feeling in the world.

My heart goes out to all who are trapped and miserable. You give your master the control, and only you can take it back. Don't be scared to live your life, but be afraid of spending the rest of it as he'll on earth.

As an escort, many confide to me about their personal lives, and I am happy to be the one they reach out to to have fun. But my guys leave, and I am left wondering if they will be ok. I certainly hope so.

Ok, enough seriousness. Relationships can be great, don't get me wrong. But for many, the sex could be better.

Take care,

Ronielle out  

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